Growing up is scary

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 Hii guys,

I'm back with another blog, I know I try to post as often as possible but my days are usually hectic and unplanned and sometimes even if I plan it well it goes out of the control of my hands... Anyways I'll try to post often at least from my 4th semester🤞.


Tomorrow is officially the last working day and my last exam for this sem but woahhh 3rd sem has been such a roller coaster, I have learnt to stand up for myself, I got new friends... So many junior friends who are so precious to me now, I learnt to let go... Letting go of things that did not belong to me, I accepted change and learnt to adapt to it. I also did pretty well in my academics, (at this point I'm talking about my majors) not french💀 lol french and me have a hate-hate relationship there's no love between us😅... 


Ok so now let me tell you a story and I hope it explains the title "growing up is scary" I once had a friend who was really close to me, she and I were best friends I used to feel like my world would not spin without her in it... but then she moved away as time passed, days became months and months became years did she stay or come back?

No, she had big dreams to accomplish and she probably wouldn't even see this blog but that's not the point. The lesson I've learnt is we grow, we grow out of our comfort zone, we face challanges and sometimes life just feels like hell...

But you know what? you learn to appreciate life better with fewer people in it... I'm not saying that making friends is a wrong thing ! like I said I have so many precious people in my life and they all make me feel special in some way... But before you make new connections get to know yourself because at the end of the day.... This is your life and your in it on your own. There's no such person as your "home" or a " constant"

Growing up is hard I'm not going to sugar coat it because you're probably facing or going to face the same bitter challenges of life and maybe in someway I gave you a heads-up to it... Anyways I've got to get to studying now so I hope you guys enjoyed this blog and have a great day... 

I'll see you guys in my next blog until then happy reading : )✨

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